When Tragedy Strikes

I made it back from Nebraska. I stayed at the Check-In Motel (a.k.a. the Bates). After I got home, ate and visited with the family, I decided to mozy back to the office and check in.

Then I got a text message from my wife. A friend’s baby died.

My thoughts?

“Huh? Do what?”

I mean, the baby is only 9 days old. What happened? Why? Surely this is a mistake?!!?

But it wasn’t. Apparently, the baby had an undiagnosed heart defect. And their baby passed on. WOW!

Let me share who this little baby’s family is. Paul is a very intelligent guy. If you ask him how he’s doing, he replies “Normal.” Paul loves people, albeit, he’s shy. He has a hearty laugh and fun sense of humor. Paul is serious and quite honest. He’s a great person and a great dad. Unfortunately, I’m flighty and thus have not been as good of a friend as he is.

Becky is the perfect match for Paul. She is outgoing and energetic. She is always bubbly and always has a smile on her face regardless of the stress she’s going through. Becky is a great mom and the perfect wife for Paul.

We had the privilege of getting to know Paul and Becky from a previous church. Paul and Becky have been to our house numerous times for prayer meetings, HOPE group and as just friends hanging out. They are a beautiful couple and we treasure their company.

Kaylynn is a beautiful little girl with precious golden curls. She is the typical toddler full of fun. And she is dearly loved. Fortunately, we’ve know Kaylynn since she was born and have seen her grow into the little girl that she is.

Abigail was born into a terrific home just 10 days before her death. Despite coming into this messed up world, she was loved well before she was formed in Becky’s womb.

Apparently, Abigail was born with medical problems which no one saw or heard. These medical problems mounted and took her little, young life. She is missed as her family deals with the questions and grief. But one thing is certain. She is with God and Jesus receiving even greater care then what her mom, dad, sister or physicians could ever give her here on earth.

Her funeral is on Tuesday. Please pray for them, us and our church as a whole during this tragic time.